BDSM Agreement
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1. Parties
Names + date. Confirms two consenting adults.
2. Scope
Single scene, recurring scenes, or ongoing dynamic?
When the agreement is "on" and when it is "off".
3. Safe Words
Traffic light system plus non-verbal signal.
4. Limits — Physical, Emotional, Health
BDSM expands the limits taxonomy beyond a simple hard/soft split.
5. Practices on the Table
What is currently negotiated as in-bounds.
6. Communication Channels
Where check-ins happen — outside of scene time.
7. Aftercare
Both partners receive AND provide.
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BDSM Agreement
1. Parties
This BDSM agreement is entered into between [blank] ([blank]) and [blank] ([blank]), both adults, on [blank].
2. Scope
This agreement covers [blank]. [blank]
3. Safe Words
The following safe words apply during all play:
Green — continue.
Yellow — slow down, check in.
Red — stop everything now.
Non-verbal — [blank]
Yellow — slow down, check in.
Red — stop everything now.
Non-verbal — [blank]
Calling Yellow or Red pauses or ends the scene immediately, no questions in the moment.
4. Limits — Physical, Emotional, Health
Physical hard limits (never, under any circumstances):
To be defined together.
Emotional hard limits (never, under any circumstances):
To be defined together.
Health disclosures relevant to play:
None recorded.
Soft limits (conditional, requires explicit consent each time):
None recorded.
5. Practices on the Table
Currently negotiated practices:
To be defined together.
Implements / tools agreed upon:
None.
Adding a new practice or implement requires explicit prior negotiation.
6. Communication Channels
Structured check-ins occur [blank]. Non-scene communication channel: face-to-face only.
Check-ins are held outside of agreed scene time, both parties on equal standing.
7. Aftercare
Aftercare arrangements:
To be defined.
To be defined.
Aftercare is part of the scene, not an afterthought. Both parties are responsible for receiving and providing.
8. Pause, Revocation, Renewal
Either party may pause at any time by stating "I'm pausing." All practices suspend until both parties agree to resume.
Either party may terminate this agreement at any time, in writing, with no obligation to justify the decision.
This agreement will be reviewed for renewal or revision at a mutually-agreed cadence.
Either party may terminate this agreement at any time, in writing, with no obligation to justify the decision.
This agreement will be reviewed for renewal or revision at a mutually-agreed cadence.
Signatures
Party 1: ___________________________ Date: __________
Party 2: ___________________________ Date: __________
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