On your own
Explore at your own pace.
- Find your type with the free test
- Build a private Map of what you want
- Draft the scene you’d want with a future partner
- Keep rituals and a journal just for you
BDSM & D/s app for couples
A private BDSM app for couples.
Find out what draws you in, say it without the awkward conversation, and explore it with a partner only when you both want to.
Find out what draws you in. Share it with a partner only when you both want to.
Private by default
Your Map is yours. You choose what each partner can see.
You choose what each partner sees.
Your limits stay yours
‘Never’ answers are never shared or compared.
‘Never’ is never shared.
Stop means stop
Either of you can pause or end it, no questions asked.
Pause or end it, no questions.
Sealed conversations
Partner messages are end-to-end encrypted.
End-to-end, between the two of you.
Inside the app
From quiet curiosity to the things you do together.
Cuffplay holds the whole arc: what you want, what you share, how you plan it, and how you live it day to day.What you want, what you share, how you plan it, and how you live it day to day.
01 · Your Map
Know what you want before anyone asks.
Swipe through ideas and mark each one Interested, Curious, Not for me or Never. Your Map changes as you do.
Swipe through ideas. Your Map changes as you do.
See how the Map works →
02 · In Common
Find the yes you both share.
Only what you both chose to share appears, so the first talk starts somewhere good. A match starts a conversation; it is not consent.
A match starts a conversation; it is not consent.
03 · Scene Plan
Plan it together. Then be fully in it.
Choose what you both want, set the intensity, agree on a safeword and say what aftercare you need, before anything starts.
Safeword, signals and aftercare, agreed before anything starts.
04 · Practice
Make the dynamic part of your days.
Rituals, tasks and protocols you agree on together, with optional rewards, no streak guilt, and a pause either of you can use.
Rituals and rules you keep together.
Explore rituals and tasks →
05 · Private conversation
Say the things you’d never text anywhere else.
End-to-end encrypted chat with your partner. Only the two of you can read it, not even Cuffplay.
End-to-end encrypted, between the two of you.
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Singles and couples
Single or partnered, it starts with you.
With a partner
Bring them in when you’re ready.
- Invite them with a one-time link
- See only the yes you both share
- Plan scenes, agree on your rules
- Pause or end it, no questions
You decide, partner by partner
Share by category with each partner, and take it back whenever you want.
Your ‘Never’ stays sealed
Hard limits are never shared and never compared, with anyone.
Encrypted where it matters
Partner chat is end-to-end encrypted. Sensitive answers are encrypted on our servers.
Leave whenever you want
Export everything or delete your account. You have 7 days to change your mind.
Free on the web
Not ready for an account? Start here.
Kink Test
36 questions about what draws you in. See your full result in about 4 minutes, no account needed.
Kink Checklist
Go through the list and sort every idea into yes, maybe and no.
Sort every idea into yes, maybe, no.
Open the checklist →Contract builder
Turn your dynamic into a written agreement you can talk through.
Your dynamic, in writing.
Open the builder →Learn
Words for the conversation.
Guides
Roles, limits, safewords and aftercare, explained plainly.
Kink glossary
Plain-language definitions, with context and care notes.
Reviews
How other tools work.
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Questions
Before you begin.
Is Cuffplay free?
Yes. The Kink Test, the web tools and the app are free to use. You can see your test result without an account.
Do I need a partner?
No. Everything works on your own. Connect with a partner later, if and when you choose.
Who can see my answers?
Only you, until you choose to share. You decide what each partner sees, and ‘Never’ answers are never shared or compared.
Is there an app to download?
Not yet. Google Play and App Store apps are coming soon. Today Cuffplay runs in your browser at cuffplay.com/app, on your phone or computer, with one account for the website and the app.
