Invitation
Your partner invited you
Your partner has invited you to Cuffplay, a free, private web app for adults. Here is what you need, what you will see, and how to say yes or no.
What you need
You need to be 18 or older and have a free account. Cuffplay is a free, private BDSM and kink web app for adults; there is no paid tier. It runs in your browser at cuffplay.com/app.
What you’ll see, and what they can’t see
Nothing from your Map is shared until you decide what to include. Your partner does not see your answers. In In Common, only ideas you both chose and both decided to share appear.
“Never” is never shared or compared, and there are no counts or scores that could reveal a one-sided answer. You see the same shared ideas your partner does, and nothing else of theirs.
How to accept or decline
The invitation is a private link. It opens after you sign in. Nothing joins until you agree, and you can decline by simply not accepting it.
Either of you can pause or end the connection at any time. Resuming after a pause needs both of you.
What you can do together
See what you share in In Common. Plan a scene in the Scene Planner, where your partner can agree, suggest a change or say “Not now.” Use Practice for rules and tasks that start as proposals you can accept, change or decline with no penalty. Partner chat is end-to-end encrypted.
A shared interest is not consent. Either of you can slow down or stop at any time.
Nothing joins until you agree. “Never” is never shared or compared. Either of you can pause or end the connection at any time.
Frequently asked questions